I have three topics for my church write-up today. Last Sunday, I
went to a Baptist church. Most of the people who attend, as well as the
pastor, are African-American. But there are a significant number of
white people who also attend.
A. The
character of God as a parent was one topic that came up. The pastor
asked, "How many of you like to give things to your children when
they're disobedient?" The expected answer, of course, at least among
those who have children, was "none of us." The pastor was arguing that
God is that way, too.
I went home and
listened to another of this pastor's sermons. He was presenting a
scenario of people going to God in prayer with a request, and God
responds, "What have you done for me lately?" The pastor's point was
that Christianity is about more than us getting our needs met. God has
God's agenda.
Contrast that with a message
that I heard from the pastor of a Word of Faith-like church that I
attend every now and then. This pastor presented a different scenario.
Suppose you are a parent, and your child is disobedient, and your child
gets into trouble. Wouldn't you go and help your child? Many parents
would. The pastor said that God is the same way.
All
three of these are plausible scenarios, when it comes to how people act
as parents, and perhaps when it comes to how God acts. But they are
quite different from each other.
B. The
pastor----I mean the pastor at the Baptist church that I attended last
Sunday----was saying that God blessed him with his wife. He and she
first met at church, when neither one of them wanted to be there. But
they went, and they met. His wife was sensitive to spiritual things and
prays for her husband. For the pastor, their marriage is a God thing.
I
thought about a conversation that I had with a friend a while back.
This friend was talking about going to college and dating, but he did
not find anyone with whom he was compatible. But he met the woman who
became his wife when he was off in the boonies somewhere, and they have
been together since. He considers that a God thing.
When
I had that conversation with my friend, I resented what he was saying.
What about people who never find their soul mate? What about people
who get into marriages that don't work? Does God care less for them?
Can Christians think about anyone other than themselves and their own
well-being, for once?
After hearing the
pastor, though, I could sympathize more with what my friend was saying.
When a person meets a person in an off-chance encounter, and they form a
relationship that actually works and is a blessing to both of them,
then I can understand why they would consider that a God thing. It's
like the arguments for Intelligent Design: things could have turned out
differently, and there would have been no life in that case, but they
turned out as they did, and so there is life. Many see that as a God
thing. They think that something more than luck is going on.
I
would say that there have been events in my life that I would consider a
God thing. Something breaks down, there is not enough money to buy a
brand new replacement, and yet we find a fairly inexpensive replacement
on Craig's List. Many would call that luck. But I can understand why
people see that as God's provision.
None of
this solves the problem, though, of why God seems to be so present and
active in some people's lives, but not in others. But the key word is
"seems."
C. I do not like calling the
tragic events this week a "topic." I'd rather not comment on those
tragic events at all, since nothing I say can do justice to them. Plus,
I don't want inadvertently to say something offensive, or for
commenters to leave offensive comments on my blog. But the pastor said
something last Sunday that relates to these events, or at least to
similar events.
The pastor was criticizing
the "Black Lives Matters" movement, saying that all lives matters. As
an African-American, he acknowledged that the "Black Lives Matters"
movement is protesting real problems. But he does not believe that
rioters display much wisdom. He said that it is unwise for rioters to
burn down businesses, because then they don't have a place to go to work
the next day. He said that he wouldn't express these opinions in the
middle of Chicago, however, since then he'd be killed.
I
do not really know this pastor, but my guess is that he has this
perspective because he believes that is how African-Americans can get
through life. He probably acknowledges that things are unfair, but he
may think that people need to make due with the hand that they've been
dealt, on some level. But the problem is that there are
African-Americans going through life, and they end up dead after a
tragic encounter with the police. I wonder what the pastor thinks about
that. I'm sure he's against it, but is it more to him than something
that he sees on the news and has an opinion about?
Of
course, I cannot make a judgment, since I know little about the
pastor. I read on his bio that he used to be a cop. That may factor
into his views, somehow, and not necessarily in a gun-ho pro-police
manner. He may have a unique perspective.
A person who knew my story would probably say that I was naive about
race when I was younger. At the undergraduate institution that I
attended, I was taking a Winter Term class. I was arguing against
affirmative action, saying that people should be hired based on their
qualifications, not their race. My professor asked me, “Do you
seriously think that an African-American woman has the same shot as you
do in life?” I sincerely answered “yes.”
Years later, at a graduate school that I attended, I was talking
about race with an African-American friend. The year 2000 was
approaching, and Democrat Bill Bradley was running against Al Gore for
the Democratic nomination for President. My friend was continually
saying that he was supporting Bradley because Bradley was sensitive to
the issue of race and racism. I then asked him, “Is racism still a
problem?” My friend was surprised that I even asked that question, and
he launched into a lecture about racism, the problems of the inner-city,
hate crimes, and the list goes on.
I’ve thought to myself more than once: What exactly did I believe
back then? I know that I wasn’t completely unaware of the problems of
the inner-city. That wasn’t my world, but I knew about those problems,
on some level. As a conservative, I supported school choice as a way to
get poor African-American children out of inner-city schools, showing
that I believed that inner-city schools were not particularly good. I
supported enterprise zones, showing that I was aware that poor areas
needed investment if people there were to rise economically. To believe
that way, I had to be aware that it wasn’t easy for everyone,
everywhere to pull himself or herself up by his or her own bootstraps,
that there were places that lacked opportunities. Still, for some
reason, when I watched a news special about African-Americans protesting
outside of a Korean-owned store in their neighborhood, I wondered how
they could persecute that nice, hardworking Korean man. I was unaware
of their perspective: they wanted African-American-owned businesses in
their neighborhood, not businesses owned by people of other races or
ethnic groups.
Quite frankly, I cannot account for my worldview back then. Maybe I
felt that there were African-Americans in the inner-city, but that the
fact that many were not demonstrated that racism was no longer a
problem. On whether or not I believed that an African-American woman
had the same shot that I did, perhaps I thought that an African-American
woman could be like Claire Huxtable, if she worked hard enough. After
reading for Black History Month this year, it did interest me that
African-American women on average do economically better than
African-American men.
I also think that there was a part of me that saw racism as
individual prejudice, not as something that is systemic. When my
African-American friend was talking about the murder of James Byrd, I
was definitely compassionate about what happened to James Byrd, but I
did not know what that had to do with me. Of course it’s wrong to kill
someone on account of his race! Most white people would agree that this
is wrong! But what I did not realize was that individual prejudice
could lead to systemic racism: people’s individual attitudes influence
whom they hire, for example.
I’m kind of struggling to write this post, so I will call it quits
here. I do not know what it is like to be black in America, but
hopefully I learned more by reading the books that I did this month.