In White Women's Christ and Black Women's Jesus, Jacquelyn Grant refers to the view of Leonard Swidler that Jesus had male and female personality traits. Here is how Swidler characterizes Jesus according to gender characteristics, and it appears on page 105 of Dr. Grant's book. (For the characteristics, I'll be using the language that appears in Dr. Grant's book, without providing quotation marks):
MEN
Reasonable and cool (Luke 4:28-30; 20:20-26)
Firm, aggressive (Mark 8:33; Luke 12:49)
Advocates of justice (Mark 5:6, 17-19)
Pride and self-confidence (Matthew 21:8-20; John 18:33-37; 19:10)
Providers of security (food, clothing, shelter) (Luke 12:22; John 6:35, 67)
WOMEN
Feeling and emotions (Luke 7:11-15; John 11:33-36)
Gentle, peaceful (Matthew 5:4; Luke 2:14; 7:50; 13:34)
Advocates of mercy (Matthew 5:7; 9:13)
Humility and reserve (Matthew 6:1-6; Luke 14:7-11)
Need security (Matthew 15:34)
I'm a little confused by the final item in the list, which has concern for children, persons, and organization structure. I'm unclear what belongs where, due to a problem in indentation.
I'm not sure if all of these Scriptures fit those characteristics. I checked a few, and the connections appear rather weak. But I agree that Jesus had both a firm and also a vulnerable side.