My pastor’s sermon this morning got into a variety of issues. He
started off by talking about how many of us wear masks, and we should
not be afraid to take off our masks before God and ourselves. But then
he was getting into us being willing to lay down our lives for others,
as Jesus did for us. I do not understand that, to tell you the truth. I
don’t think that many of us will be in a situation in which we have to
lay down our lives for somebody else. Okay, well, suppose I was in such
a situation: Would I be willing to lay down my life for someone else?
It depends, I guess. Do I know the person? Do I have affection for the
person? If not, then I would have to be particularly overwhelmed by
the Spirit of God to have enough love in me to lay down my life for
another person!
On my way to church, I was thinking about a project that I’m
participating in. I am a bit less-than-enthusiastic about it because it
requires some time-commitment on my part. But I realize that it is
important to the person leading the project, and so I am participating.
I would not label my act self-sacrifice, per se. But I think that it
is important for me to do something for someone else, rather than just
seeking to serve myself.
I Chronicles 4 has the story of Jabez. Jabez prayed to God: “Oh that
thou wouldest bless me indeed, and enlarge my coast, and that thine
hand might be with me, and that thou wouldest keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me!” (v 10, KJV). The text goes on to narrate that “God granted his request.“
I liked what the Orthodox Jewish Artscroll commentary had to say
about the prayer of Jabez, as it drew from Jewish traditions: that Jabez
in I Chronicles 4:10 was asking God for the opportunity to learn and to
teach Torah. That was the path to true blessing, and that would be how
God would keep Jabez from evil, particularly Jabez’s own evil
inclination. And, according to the Artscroll, God granted Jabez’s
request by leading Jabez to a group of Kenites. In I Chronicles 2:55,
we encounter Kenite scribes who dwelt in a place called Jabez.
According to the Artscroll, the Kenites needed a teacher, and God
provided them with one, leading to a place of Torah study and scribal
activity called “Jabez.”
Many Christians have criticized Bruce Wilkinson’s 2000 book, The Prayer of Jabez,
saying that it promotes a prosperity Gospel. Back when the book was
popular, there was concern that Christians would use the prayer of Jabez
as a mantra in an attempt to obligate God to cater to their own
self-centered desires. I was listening to one preacher who said that
the Bible does not promise that God will hear everyone who prays: the
prayer of one who does not listen to God’s law is an abomination
(Proverbs 28:9); God will not hear the prayer of one who ignores the cry
of the poor (Proverbs 21:13); and husbands who are inconsiderate
towards their wives hinder their own prayers (I Peter 3:7). See here
for other examples. I recall Christian radio personality Hank
Hanegraaff saying that we can pray the prayer of Jabez until we are blue
in the face, but God will not honor that prayer if we refuse to forgive
a person.
I think that the Artscroll’s insights can potentially counter these
reservations, or at least balance them out. Jabez was not asking for
material prosperity, per se, but for the opportunity to grow closer to
God and to serve others, through study of the Torah. And Jabez
recognized that he had an evil inclination and thus needed the Torah to
deal with his own evil. That, in my opinion, is preferable to assuming
that people need to become perfect before God answers their prayers, yet
it also unites prayer with the pursuit of righteousness, the path of
becoming godly, compassionate people.
Incidentally, my impression is that a number of Bruce Wilkinson’s
critics read his book one-sidedly. Wilkinson was relating the prayer of
Jabez to receiving opportunities to serve God and others, which is
similar to what the Artscroll is saying.
I will not make the leap of saying that the Artscroll’s
interpretation of the prayer of Jabez is what the biblical passage meant
in its original context. Still, I appreciated the Artscroll’s
insights, and the insights of the Jewish interpreters from which it was
drawing.